Taking a Punch
Those that know me know I like dark humor, I like a good joke, I tell bad jokes, I write jokes, and I've even sold a few good jokes to clear a bar tab or two... or three. Recently, I've come to love this little bit of insight I had, and kind of live by it... "I'd rather be the punchline of a dark joke than a forgotten footnote in a bland story." This sentiment is clear to me -Life is too short to settle for mediocrity or anonymity. Sure, there are risks attached to taking on anything new, but that doesn't mean you can just stand still and accept anything less than what you deserve. The punchline of a joke is memorable, it stands out; notice me or remember me - whatever the case may be.
While some may think it's a bit morbid to choose the punchline over the footnote, I'd rather be remembered for something memorable - even if it's cloaked in darkness. After all, don't they say that laughter is often the best medicine? That lesson was reinforced after my stroke when even the darkest of jokes were enough to make me feel better.
Yes, more often than not I prefer to be the punchline of a joke - it provides levity and entertainment during times of darkness. It's far better to have people remember you for something fun, light-hearted, and (sometimes) darkly humorous - instead of being forgotten
When my life story comes to an end, I want it to be filled with laughter, even if it's of the darker kind. I want my story to be told with a bit of glee - even if that glee comes from my misfortune. Let me live in infamy, not obscurity! I know, I know, it's not a cheerful sentiment - but that's how I roll.
That being said, there is something about the power of a footnote. It can be the tiny spark that ignites a movement. The forgotten words can become the ones that are remembered and echoed for years to come, even if it's in whispers. Screw that, I'll take the laughter.
At the end of the day, I'd rather be remembered - even if it's with a cringe - than forgotten in some bland story. So here I am the punchline of a dark joke, but never the footnote in some dull story.
So take heed everyone: Don't be forgotten like a footnote in a bland story - Instead, strive to be the punchline of an unforgettable dark joke. That's what I'm doing! So if you ever need someone to provide some comic relief during somber moments - just call my name and I'll be there! I'll be more than happy to make you CRINGE just a little... "Why did the skeleton go to the party alone? Because he had no-body to go with, darling! And let me tell you, that bony fella knew how to rattle the dance floor!" Shut up, that's funny!
Remember, life's too short not to laugh, even at the skeletons in our closets! Embrace the hilarity, my darlings, and keep those smiles shining bright!
Now let's laugh in the face of darkness.
Don't worry though, I'm laughing with you too...or maybe at you?
No... definitely with you.
Cheers friends, I'll see you on the dance floor. This skeleton is ready to rattle it up.
