on the road… again
I'm about halfway through my journey, and I must say, traveling on my own has been nothing short of an adventure! As the days go by, my exploration of this country continues to amaze me. From the old monuments in Winnipeg that tell tales of forgotten nights at Happenings to the south shore of Nova Scotia where every view looks like a Group of Seven portrait - it's been an incredible experience so far. With each new place I visit, I find myself in awe at how much there is to discover here.
Since my sudden, unexpected, and tragic departure from the US on November 3, I've been given a lot of time to think about the first half of my life and what the next half of my life will look like. The first half has been filled with major successes and failures. I was married to a wonderful person for many years, only to get divorced, and then hit an all-time low dealing with a struggling business made even worse during the covid lockdown, to being ripped away from the home and partner I loved so much, due to my negligence.
I was shaken to my core and it took time to find my footing, and instead of letting this failure define me, with the support of some of my closest friends in Vancouver and Winnipeg, I chose to pick myself up and embark on a new journey - one that would take me across Canada to get my dog Blu and find me in search of a new home. For some people, this decision may seem daunting or even crazy. Why leave when you have so much to stay for? Why spend your days and nights alone, just you and the open road?
Honestly, I've never felt so free! Something is thrilling about being able to experience new places on my terms; exploring the country, trying out local delicacies, or simply taking in a view that many never get to see. It’s given me time to reflect on my journey so far and plan for what’s ahead. Traveling alone has also allowed me to spend time with my family, see old friends, and meet some amazing new people, - locals who have shown me around and have given some great advice. This decision has turned into one of the most rewarding experiences of my life.
Truth be told, I do miss my life and what I had and who I loved in NY every day, was it perfect? No, not at all, even the most beautiful pieces of art have their flaws, but it was mine, and I had a connection that can never be replaced. That chapter has ended and a new chapter has begun. For now, I'm embracing the journey that comes and seeing where it takes me next.
So, if there is one thing I’ve learned in this journey so far - it is that life cannot be contained to a single place or person. Life exists outside of those boundaries and this time alone has opened my eyes to the world around me.
I still have much more road to cover with Blu, but I know that wherever we end up, we will both have some great stories to tell! So for now, it's time for me to continue my journey and see what else awaits me on the road. Who knows, maybe the next surprise will make all this worthwhile! Until then… wish me luck!
Next stop Lunenburg.
